Warning – this post contains spoilers for the film Suicide Squad, in theatres today. Do not read on if you do not wish to be spoiled.
Time to introduce a new post series I’ve been planning since I rebranded the site! Each week, I’ll round up a few things – news, quizzes, etc. – that are my “loves” for the week. There’s no telling what each week will bring, so let’s kick it off with puppies, shopping, and more.
- This NFL player made the best training camp entrance of all time. Spoiler: he was flanked by the four cutest puppies I’ve seen in a long time. DREAM COME TRUE. Seriously, two paws up for this guy. (Check out his Instagram, too – he posts pics of those puppies all the time!)
- Buzzfeed’s latest quiz asks, “How obsessed with Target are you?” Fun fact: I spent four and a half hours in a local Target one recent Sunday because it had air conditioning (mine was broken), and also because it’s Target. Also a fun fact: I got 100% on this quiz.
- If you haven’t started binge-watching Stranger Things yet, stop reading this post and get at it. The Spielberg-esque monster-movie-turned miniseries has been widely hailed as the best Netflix original series this year – no joke. It’s only eight episodes, too, so you can knock it out in under a week. Seriously. Go now.
- I asked my boyfriend earlier this week to promise that he’d always look at me the way Bill Clinton looks at balloons. He promised.
- I’ll be covering the premiere of DC’s supervillian flick Suicide Squad later this week on the blog! Even thought I haven’t seen the movie yet, I’m already loving Viola Davis’ no-nonsense badass ladyboss, Amanda Waller. Most intimidating character in the movie, and that includes The Joker! I love this piece on what movies like Suicide Squad do for diversity in Hollywood.
- Okay, but really. Go watch Stranger Things right now.
Did I miss anything? Share your “loves” for this week in the comments!
As many of you know, I moved into my very own studio apartment in Chicago a couple of months ago! I’d been itching to move out since I started commuting to my internship in December, and after both saving my paychecks and getting a full-time position, I knew it was time. And now, after two months of living here, it finally feels like home. (I promise, that apartment tour post is coming!)
The reason I think I’m most proud of my new little home is because I did almost everything myself. I’m a viciously independent person, and I really like to handle things on my own (even when I’m probably better off with some help). But in this case, I asked where I needed a little extra help, but managed it all alone. It’s definitely not easy, but a few tips and tricks really helped me keep everything in order.
- Ask for what you want in an apartment. When I first started researching apartments, I kept saying I “wasn’t picky” about things like location, floor space, building features, etc. All I knew was that I didn’t want it to be “too pricey”, whatever that meant, and that I wanted to be near a train or bus line. Turns out that doesn’t narrow anything down – and narrowing down your choices is crucial. You can’t POSSIBLY see everything out there, so decide on your ideal neighborhood, a price limit, and some non-negotiables, even if they seem silly. Hardwood floors, a dishwasher, a shower with installed glass doors – anything you know you really want. You may not get absolutely everything on your list, but it gives you a good idea of where you might want to look and what the reality is.
- Utilize your resources. If you know someone who’s recently moved, ask about their landlord or management group. Ask friends or family in neighborhoods you like if they’re happy (and if they’re willing to share, what their rent is). For me, my biggest resources for finding the apartment I chose was my stepmom – she’d helped my older sister find her apartment less than a year before, so she called the same leasing agent (hooray, referral bonus!) and went with me on a tour of a few buildings. While I ultimately chose the apartment I liked the most and not the one she liked, her guidance was crucial in helping me understand what I was getting for my money and how to make a decision I’d be happy with.
- Understand your budget. I got a little lucky with some of my furniture – I loved how one of the apartments I saw was decorated, and the girl moving out was willing to sell me some of her big pieces for dirt-cheap. But that’s definitely not the norm, and buying furniture (even at a discount) can be pricey! I created a Google Sheet (like Excel) that listed all the basic items I needed – bed, desk, couch, etc – and then listed the ones I found that I liked and what they would cost. I added it all up at the bottom of the sheet, and that gave me an overall idea of what I’d be spending at a minimum for what I wanted. I definitely made changes as I went, and each time I made a purchase, I crossed the item out on the list and deleted the price so that I knew how much I had left to spend at the bottom of the sheet. I lived and breathed by this Google Sheet through my move and until two or three weeks after I’d settled in – I highly recommend it for staying organized!
- Prioritize your buying. Sometimes it feels like you need a perfect apartment right when you move in – I know I wanted to be able to put finishing touches on it as soon as possible! But I was advised to prioritize, and I’m glad I did. I bought the things I needed – furniture, cleaning supplies, kitchen gear, etc. – right away, and have been decorating and buying other things slowly since my move-in. It’s been really easy to just budget out a certain amount from each paycheck towards the next few things I need, and honestly, I finally feel like I’m almost done! It takes patience, but your wallet (and you) will be happier for it. This is also a key tip because of space – apartments are almost always smaller than you think. You’ll be happier moving in and then purchasing things to fit rather than realizing you bought too much and have to get rid of things you like that there isn’t room for.
- Anticipate everything you might need. Oh boy, this is something I didn’t do enough of. There’s a lot that I had at home with my parents that I didn’t have in my new apartment – cleaning supplies, Advil, cooking spices, even toilet paper! Try to think through everything that you use in a week at home (or that someone uses for you, if that’s the case) and decide if you’ll need it right away. I recommend being prepared with cleaning supplies – moving is messy, and the apartment may be dusty from when you walk in. For everything else, it’s a personal preference. Try walking through a store like Target or Walmart – go through every aisle, even if you don’t think you’ll need to, and see if you’re forgetting anything. (The day I moved, I sent my dad to Target for light bulbs, adhesive strips to hang art, a hammer, and garbage bags – definitely didn’t remember those!)
- Don’t be afraid to change it up! Not happy with how you decorated? Regretting buying a grey couch cover instead of a green one? Wishing you’d splurged on that bookshelf? You’re free to make the changes you want if you feel that way! I’ve already changed my duvet cover (mine was unraveling anyway, but I totally changed the color) and rearranged my entire apartment layout, and it made such a huge difference in feeling like home. It’s not a game show, where a final answer is the only answer – make changes, add things here and there, and really make your apartment your new home.
What are your best tips for first-time apartment dwellers? Share in the comments!
On Friday night, I had the most SICKENING night (and that’s a good thing, I promise!) I’d had in a long time. I spent my night at the Riviera Theatre in the audience of the RuPaul’s Drag Race Battle of the Seasons Extravaganza Tour 2016! I laughed, screamed, cheered, and almost cried as I watched legendary drag queens strut their stuff for a few hours.
But I know a few of you might be wondering the same thing I’ve been asked many, many times: What’s the deal with this girly, fashion-obsessed blogger chick and her love of drag queens?
It started with a lot of free time. (Doesn’t everything?) I spent my senior winter break in college alone in my townhouse, taking an online class and binge-watching everything I could find on Netflix and Amazon Prime. Multiple friends of mine had been talking about Drag Race for months, and I finally decided to give it a try one night. As I sat in my bathroom, curling my hair and doing my makeup while the first episode of season six played on my iPad, I knew I was hooked. There was something so fascinating about these men in dresses, looking better than me in heels and wigs and makeup, and I ended up coming home from dinner as soon as I could, finishing the season in a day and a half. Then came seasons 1 – 5, and I managed to get through those before the seventh season premiered live on TV that spring.
As I made my way through the seasons, I quickly learned that it wasn’t just about the outfits and the drama between queens. So many of these stars had gone through hell and back just because they were gay or feminine, and they were brave enough not only to share their stories for a TV audience, but to keep on doing drag and making themselves happy despite the hardships. As someone who’d been through hardship before, I related – but I also learned more about strength and bravery from TV drag queens than I ever did from skipping a grade, being bullied in school, or having cancer. People supported me – a blonde girl from a middle-class family – through everything. Most of these queens didn’t have that. They had more haters than friends, some of which were their own family members. And yet, they still walked down the drag runway like they’d been born to smile and look gorgeous.
These stories and struggles came to life at the Battle of the Seasons show this weekend. Multiple queens, as well as host Michelle Visage, talked about accepting everyone regardless of how they identify and no matter their age. It was a safe space for everyone – even for “regular” girls who just didn’t know where they fit in for most of their lives. Michelle Visage even sang a beautiful Madonna song set to a montage of photos from the Stonewall riots, the AIDS crisis, and modern pro-gay marriage rallies. (And I cried. I cried a LOT.)
I’m not someone who likes to get political in public, but I will always vocally support a person – any gender, any sexuality – who has overcome obstacles and suffered for what they love. Watching Drag Race has continued to inspire me every day and remind me to love myself for all I am, to never stop fighting for what I want or believe in, and to keep my support system close – you never know when you’ll need them the most. Drag Race provides a love and a support system for these performers, and my friends and family who love and accept me unconditionally – whether they watch the show or not – are mine.
If you want to watch the show, seasons 4-7 are available on Hulu, and seasons 4-6 are commercial-free on Amazon Prime. If not, hey, I won’t judge you – but you’re missing out on some of the best fashion I’ve ever seen.
Do you watch RuPaul’s Drag Race? Who are your favorite contestants? If you don’t watch, what shows or pop culture phenomenons have inspired you? Share in the comments!
The boyfriend and I had dinner at Barcocina last month when he was helping me move in, and we had the best time! We love shared plates (we have the same taste in food!), and Barcocina is perfect for couples who want to share or for big groups of friends. The atmosphere is trendy and fun (think top 40 radio and fun cocktails), and since there’s nothing better than an outdoor meal on a sunny evening, I can’t wait to revisit Barcocina and eat on their patio. It’s also dog friendly, so if you spot a girl making friends with every pup out there, you know who it is!
Okay, let’s start with the fact that I hate running. I hate working out, really. But I love 5Ks – these days, they’re fun, often themed, and doable for walkers and runners alike. One June 25, Bears fans can run 3.1 miles ending at Soldier Field at the Chicago Bears 5K, where they’ll be shown on the videotron as they cross the finish line, enjoy a beer (for those 21+), and party with Staley Da Bear. It’s a great event for families, too – kids under six can participate for free! If anyone has a pink Bears jersey I can borrow, let me know!
Chicago Pride is easily one of my favorite weekends all year long! I break out my rainbow tutu and suspenders (yes, I really do own a rainbow tutu and suspenders), have a mimosa with friends, and park myself wherever I can find a spot for the most colorful, proud parade in Chicago! This year, pop stars Daya and Jordin Sparks will be performing in the parade, and there’ll also be a whole Pride Fest and other events throughout Boystown and Lakeview. LGBTIQ or not, it’s a great day to celebrate and have fun, so break out your most colorful clothes and enjoy!
Green City Market runs all summer (and year-round to a smaller degree), but I love checking it out as often as I can. From fresh produce to flowers and goat cheese to wine, I love taking a small amount of cash and seeing what I end up coming home with. Tip: get to know the vendors you really like – they’ll let you know which week’s they’re coming and when they’ll have the products you like! Also, while I hate waking up early as much as anyone, it’s SO worth it to beat the crowds and get a better selection.